Rhinebeck Child and Family Center, LLC              

The Center for Practical Child and Adolescent Therapy Techniques

Dr. David A. Crenshaw, Director  

 

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Therapeutic Engagement of Children and Adolescents

Understanding and Treating the Aggression of Children: Fawns in Gorilla Suits

Understanding and Treating Aggressive Children: Fawns in Gorilla Suits

Handbook of Play Therapy with Aggressive Children

 

Evocative Strategies in Child and Adolescent Psychotherapy

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Copyright © 2004-2008 by David A. Crenshaw, Ph.D., ABPP. All rights reserved.

"The Hidden Dimensions" 

By David A. Crenshaw, Ph.D., ABPP

 

     Dr. James Garbarino, Chairman of the Department of Humanistic Psychology at Loyola University, and I wrote a paper entitled, “The Hidden Dimensions: Unspeakable Sorrow and Buried Human Potential in Violent Youth."1 The unspeakable sorrow derives from the invisible emotional wounds that Kenneth V. Hardy, Ph.D., Director of the Eikenberg Institute for Relationships describes as often unrecognized and even worse, sometimes devalued.  Hardy explains that emotional wounds do not receive the same attention or respect that physical wounds elicit.2 If a colleague arrives for work with a cast on her arm, most co-workers will express concern, interest and curiosity about what happened to her. If a co-worker arrives for work feeling noticeably depressed it is unlikely to garner the same solicitude particularly the longer it goes on. The invisible emotional wounds of children exposed to violence are just as real and in some cases far more devastating than the physical wounds that may bear scars from injuries received during beatings in the past. The invisible wounds also are typically slower to heal and the healing process more complicated, especially the lacerations to the soul of a child. There is both unspeakable sorrow and rage associated with such deep injuries to the spirit of a child or a teen. 

     In addition to the hidden, invisible emotional wounds borne by youth prone to violence, another often unrecognized core feature is their talents and strengths. When turning points in the lives of resilient youth who overcame the adverse conditions of their early lives are reviewed, frequently they will name a teacher, a coach, a family member who refused to give up on them, who saw something good in them, something redeeming, a talent, a gift, an ability that could be cultivated and developed. As therapists we should just as aggressively pursue “what is right” with the youth we are treating as we do “what is wrong” with them. I have long challenged the pervasive influence of the training that most mental health professionals receive that “punctuates pathology” and “documents damage” but often overlooks the resources within our youthful clients for growth and change. The psychoanalyst, the late Walter Bonime, M.D, that I was privileged to learn from used to remind me often, “It is psychoanalysis, not pathoanalysis.”

1 Crenshaw, D. A. and Garbarino, J. (2007). The hidden dimensions: Profound sorrow and buried potential in violent youth. Journal of Humanistic Psychology, 47, 160-174.

2 Hardy, K. V. and T. Laszloffy. (2005). Teens who hurt: Clinical interventions with violent youth. New York: Guilford.

 

Copyright © 2007 by David A. Crenshaw, Ph.D., ABPP.  All rights reserved.