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Dr. David A. Crenshaw, Director  

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Dr. Crenshaw's book Bereavement: Counseling the Grieving throughout the Life Cycle is so successful that it is now in its third printing and earned an average customer rating of 4.0 out of 5 starsfrom Amazon.com       
Read Dr. Crenshaw's articles in Play Therapy magazine by clicking on title: "Should I Be Worried?"  "Selective Mutism" "Preverbal Trauma" "No Time or Place for Child's Play" "Sounds of Silence" "Symbolism of Windows and Doors in Play Therapy" with permission of Play Therapy Magazine.  
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Child and Adolescent Psychotherapy: Wounded Spirits and Healing Paths,

Therapeutic Engagement of Children and Adolescents

Understanding and Treating the Aggression of Children: Fawns in Gorilla Suits

Understanding and Treating Aggressive Children: Fawns in Gorilla Suits

Handbook of Play Therapy with Aggressive Children

 

Evocative Strategies in Child and Adolescent Psychotherapy

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 Heartfelt Feelings Coloring Card Strategies Kit

Tools to Pursue the Heart of Therapy

As of June 1st, 2007, the Coloring Card Company, LLC in Flemington, New Jersey (www.coloringcardcompany.com) will make available for sale the Heartfelt Feelings Coloring Cards Strategies (HFCCS) Kit.  

 

Dr. Paul Marciano, the CEO of the Coloring Card Company, explains that the Kit will consist of a printed and bound Clinical Manual and a set of 20 Expressive Cards and a set of 20 Relational Cards. We are very excited about this collaborative project to make the Heartfelt Feelings Coloring Card Strategies readily available to clinicians with the Clinical Manual and Card Sets combined in one ready to use package.  Dr. Marciano enjoys not only the distinction of earning his Ph.D. in Child Clinical Psychology under the mentorship of Dr. Alan Kazdin, a nationally renowned psychologist who has been elected President of the American Psychological Association, but is also the grandson of Ludwig Bemelmans, the author and creator of the Madeline books for children.

 

Ten percent of the sales are generously donated by the Coloring Card Company to the Astor Home for Children with which Dr. Crenshaw has proudly enjoyed a long-term affiliation and presently serves on the Board of Directors.  The Astor Home for Children’s motto is “Every Child Deserves a Childhood.”

 

A note from Dr. Crenshaw:

 

The company that publishes and distributes my Heartfelt Feelings Coloring Card Therapy Strategies as a fund raiser for the Children's Foundation of the Astor Home was recently written up in the Wall Street Journal for its generosity to charity. It is the only company in the United States that donates 10% of sales, not just profits, to charities that serve children. Keep them in mind as you shop for holiday and other gifts for children because they have a wide range of "Color-Me" products that children love include T-shirts, pillow cases etc. You can access them at www.coloringcardcompany.com

 

 

The “Heartfelt Feelings Coloring Card Strategies” (HFCCS) are a series of strategies that can be used in play therapy, child therapy, family therapy, group therapy, and art therapy to facilitate the expression and sharing of heartfelt emotions. Many clinicians have used some variation of the heart shape in child, play, art therapy and other creative arts therapies.  A comprehensive review of these creative contributions can be found in the HFCCS Clinical Manual. The Manual contained in the HFCCS Kit describes, gives directions, and offers clinical examples for both the HFS and the HFCCS.  Perhaps the part of the “Heartfelt Feelings Strategies” (HFS) and the HFCCS  that most distinguishes it from all the similar strategies using the heart shape in art, child and family therapy is that in both the HFS and HFCC, Dr. Crenshaw focuses on  two core domains: Expressive and Relational. The Expressive component offers structured therapeutic practice in identifying, labeling, and expressing feelings. These are key skills in affect regulation and for developing social competence. Allan Schore (2003a; 2003b) at UCLA, in his groundbreaking work on affect regulation has demonstrated that affect dysregulation is central to almost all forms of psychopathology so therapeutic interventions that address this crucial deficit will have wide application across the psychodiagnostic spectrum.

 

The Relational component consists of systematic exploration of the heartfelt feelings in connection with key attachment figures and with important persons in the child’s interpersonal world. Obviously our most heartfelt emotions do not develop in a vacuum. They develop in an interpersonal context. Our most strongly experienced emotions tend to be elicited in relation to the key attachment figures in our lives. Witness the outpouring of some of the most intense emotions human beings are capable of when an attachment bond is broken. In the HFS Strategy, the relational is accomplished in two ways. Typically, Dr. Crenshaw asks the children to color the heart in relation to a very specific relational issue, such as, “Color in the heart according to how you felt, when Daddy got mad and left the house last night.” The second way the Relational component is emphasized in the HFS is in the list of follow-up questions. Some of the questions are related to the Expressive (E) component such as, “Which feeling was the strongest?” or “What feeling is the hardest for you to express?” Another group of follow-up questions however are specifically focused on Relational (R) issues such as, “Who in the family would agree with your choice of the emotion that is expressed the least in the family?” or “What emotion is most uncomfortable for you to express and who else in the family is uncomfortable expressing that same emotion?”

 

The social context is critical. Some children get angry at school but not at home, others get angry at home but rarely at school. In the HFCCS the cards are also divided into two succinct sets, the Expressive and the Relational, to once again emphasize these two key components. In the HFS, thirty-five sample follow-up questions are offered in the Clinical Manual to address both the Expressive and the Relational domains of the HFS. In the HFCCS, the Expressive component takes the form of practice in expressing in context over forty emotions arranged in sequential fashion to cover the developmental landscape from preschool to adolescence. The Relational component consists of forty specific directives to the child in using the HFCCS cards, such as, “Draw in the heart on the front of the card, a person who once was in your heart but no longer is.” The Clinical Manual also contains a number of variations of both the HFS and HFCCS for use in bereavement work, supervision, examining countertransference feelings, highlighting strengths, and focusing on resources within the community.

References 

Schore, A. N. (2003a). Affect dysregulation and disorders of the self. New York: Norton.

Schore, A. N. (2003b). Affect regulation and the repair of the self. New York: Norton.

 

The price of the Kit is $24.95 plus shipping and handling (and for New Jersey residents 7% sales tax).  To order the Heartfelt Feelings Coloring Cards Strategies (HFCCS) Kit click here.

 

The Coloring Card Company, LLC can be reached by phone at (908) 237-2500 or by email: sales@coloringcardcompany.com